Meaning Papi doesnt give Yunior heat(father love). Unlike Mami she would say que dios te bendiga in chapter FIesta on on page 35 which means god will be there protecting you at all times. One night Mami and Papi were at a party dancing acting as if their teens again having no responsibilities. Yunior would be like the security guard making sure nobody trashes the party. Mami and Papi are two different people. Papi would cheat and Yunior would find out at the parties. Papi was too strict because he would tell Yunior and his brother in chapter Fiesta,1980 on page 37 said If you eat anything Im going to beat you ¿Entiendes? I nodded And if your brother gives you any food, Ill beat him too right in front of everybody. ¿Entiendes? This means that the father didnt have any respect towards his son or the people at the party. The father doesnt care what happens to his son he wants to be the boss.
This affects Yunior in a negative way because Yunior would be scared of his own father and wouldnt have the love of his father. Yunior would like to eat the food that they have at the party but his father said no! A real father wouldnt do that to his own children. If Papi was a real father he would treat his children in a nice way as a real caring father. This overall affects him when he continues to grow up when Yunior has his own children. He would treat them with more love because he didnt get love from his own dad. Yunior would probably doesnt want his children to grow up like that but better. Time has passed by and Yunior has lived without his father for nine years of his life. This could affect him because so many things could have been happening in his life and Papi was never there for him.
This affects him because they dont have a close relationship. Mami took care of them for a long time and was always with them because she would work for 12 hours. Mami has worked at a bar but the neighborhood they live in isnt safe. So men walk her home. Yunior could also be affected by Mami because while Papi wasnt in their lives Mami had to do everything possible so Yunior and his brother would have everything needed for example food,clothes and water etc. Which means when Mami works shes away from her children. In this case Junot Diaz fails to prove the purpose that the people that help you throughout the way in life could affect one in a negative way. In chapter Aguantando on page 75 Yunior says I never wanted to be away from the family,Intuitively distances could harden and become permanent. This is saying since his father was away for many years and he doesnt want to have distance between family because soon theyll become strangers.
This connects to the authors purpose that a persons experience and environment impacts them in negative ways. There will be changes in life, they might be positive or negative.This proves how Yunior felt about his family being separated not being a normal happy family. He expresses his sensitive side that family is supposed to be close and never should distance be a problem. In chapter Aguantando on page 83 it states Rafa was right.It wasent the first time in two yeras after left. Papi wrote saying he was coming for us and like an innocent, mami believed anything. she prepared a party even lined up to have a goat there for slaughtering. she bought me and Rafe new clothes and when he didnt show she sent everybody home. This says that Papi wrote a letter to them saying he would go get them but he lied. Mami tried her best to have a welcome party when papi arrived. This also proves that Papi affected the whole family. But the father doesnt seem to care at all. When Yunior grows up he will probably try to be a better father to his children than his own children. Without his father it also affects him to what kind of friends he has. Because he doesnt have a father advice.
Yunior shoplifts and sells drugs. His mother probably didnt notice because she was busy with work and and payed more attention to her childrens needs like having food,shelter and good to go to school. But not emotionally on how Yunior felt about Papi not there with him and Mami working all the time for them.. Yunior could have a empty space in his heart because his family isnt complete. Ramon De Las Casas (father) left Santo Domingo before his fourth birthday. Papi had been planning to leave for months,hustling and borrowing from his friends or from anyone on page 163. This is saying thats his father left him at a very young age. Yunior will live without fathers love. His father wanted to leave and probably didnt think about it carefully he just wanted to leave right away. After a fork pierced him in the cheek, Papi decided to move ,just until things cooled down. He took a small bag of clothes and broke out early in the morning on page 163 from Negocios.
Mami and Papi had a argument and and Papi just decided to leave and not communicate with each other. This would affect Yunior because at this time he was little and probably wouldnt understand things. Maybe he thought his father just didnt want to be with his family and doesnt love them. Subsequently a person could be affected by their environment and experience He was twenty four. He didnt dream about his familia and wouldnt for many years. He dreamed instead of gold coins,like the ones that had been salvaged from the many wrecks about our island,stacked high as sugar cane in chapter Negocios on page 169. this is expressing that Ramon didnt care about his family and the love they have for him. He just wants to be rich and leave. This would affect Ramon and Yunior because Ramon wont have nobody to be with and Yunior would be affected by not having his father with him in his childhood.
He would probably ask himself why did he leave us? why doesnt he love us? Overall one is affected by the environment and experience they go through. It is always important to value things in life even if their little. Big or little things affects one in a positive or negative way. Junot Diazs proves that a persons environment and experience affects them in a positive or negative way. But overall one must not let negative things that happen in life to a serious impact on one because it brings us down emotionally and mentally. One must always be grateful to what they have not everyone has the same things as one does!